Yes, I happen to be a 20something living in 2013

Happy Monday!

Last week I was contacted by David, the author of 20somethings in 2013 blog.  He asked if I would be interested in writing a profile about myself, my career, and what I have done thus far to accomplish my goals.  At first,   I was ECSTATIC,  but after about an hour or two, I realized that this profile was much like writing my self review. Not only did I need to be clear on what my career goals were, but  I needed to be honest about what steps I have taken to achieve them. YIKES!

Welp I faced my fears, and wrote this awesome post. Here’s the link to my profile and his blog, check it out:  20Somethings Profile 

 

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Has Business School Taught me Nothing?

In college there may or may not have been a heavy emphasis on the word networking. Being in business school, I might have heard a few lectures surrounding the topic, all of which until recently, I had filed away under “things you learn in college but are not really applicable”. Subjects such as geometry and earth science can be filed there; I mean who really cares all that much about sedimentary rocks or what temperature lava boils?

So I’m sure you can imagine my shock and horror when I found myself going to the Massachusetts Conference for Women without a business card tucked ever so neatly in my handbag. What’s that I hear? The grasp heard around the world?! She went to a professional conference without business cards?!

YES! So shoot me!

Well here’s what happened– the night before I found myself walking all over the streets of Boston, boyfriend in toe, trying to find a 24 hour Fedex Office. I thought that if I could throw something together, I could at least pretend to be professional at this thing.  Unfortunately, Fedex Office needs at least 2-4 days to print business cards, so again I saw no salvation to my dilemma.

Whelp ladies and gentlemen much like everything written in the blog, there is a lesson here.

  1. Always do your homework before going to a professional event.
  2. Someone invented Vistaprint for a reason, USE it!
  3. Don’t stress yourself out too much!
  4. Be clear on what you want to get out of the event
  5. Follow-up!!!

For those of you who are wondering, I ended up having a great time at the conference. I chose not to stress about my lack of business cards, but rather focus on meeting new people, having conversations and asking for their cards! It ended up being a great conference, and I learned a lot about myself and networking. Below is a link to the conference, if you are in the Boston area, make sure to check it out: http://www.maconferenceforwomen.org/

Wait..So Life Doesn’t Pause when I Need a Break?

I don’t claim to know everything, if fact this blog is precisely about the opposite. This blog is based on the principles of me not knowing anything about the future but what I have learned from my past and what I am currently learning about the present. With that being said, I thought I would be breaking my cardinal rule of being honest, if I didn’t share a little secret about where I’ve been learning some things about life and being in my twenties.

With the hope of turning pinkrosesandredwine into  a place that helps young people, much like what Oprah’s book club did for the average suburban mom/housewife/and television watcher. Here I go..

Over the summer I read the The Defining Decade: Why Your Twenties Matter — And How to Make the Most of Them Now,  by University of Virginia clinical psychologist Meg Jay. She breaks the book up into three parts, the first being Work, second Love, and lastly the Brain.

In each section, she discusses the relationship twenty-somethings have with that specific part of the book. Using the real life examples of clients she’s worked with, Jay makes these tough life lessons easy to digest and execute effectively. The book spells out the truths associated with all the decisions twenty-somethings make and how they will affect them in the future. The points she makes are bold, intelligent, and undeniably true.

She puts a real life price on how crucial this period is in a person’s life. Whether you are a twenty-something or know one, this book can be beneficial in figuring out issues your son/daughter/friend/or relative are going through.

Here are a couple links that explain the book in more detail. One is a podcast with the author, and the other is an article from Business Insider:

http://www.npr.org/2012/04/22/150429128/our-roaring-20s-the-defining-decade

http://www.businessinsider.com/dr-meg-jay-the-defining-decade-2012-7?op=1

Let me know your thoughts on the book if you’ve heard of it, or if you are currently reading it!

An Ode to Ms. Barbara Walters

Welcome to 3rd Grade. Mrs. Rosenfeld’s Class . Voorhees Elementary School. “Pick someone who you what to be like when you grow up. Everyone will do a presentation of their  person.” I picked Barbara Walters. I wanted to be a … Continue reading